We often hears people saying "I'm in Love" and of course being in love is indeed something wonderful and every opposite genders would look forward to have this.
But what happens if you fall in love and in the same time falling into a misery hole ? Well, there is no right or wrong when comes to emotional well being of an individual but what matters the most is you are really into this.
Allow me to share with you a cross identity of a couple who are in love but in a reverse manner. What exactly do I mean by cross identity here is that normally the guy would tend to be rather less caring, less tenderness, less this and less that where else the opposite will be very detail as far as lots of things is concern i.e. dates of anniversary, asking of your well being, taking care of your welfare, more tender & loving and etc.
What happen here is the female is basically playing the role of the male and of course the male will automactically plays the role of the female. Weird right ? well i dont think so. What I really think about this characteristic relationship is that sometimes guys can be very different from what the females presume us to be.
During the initial courtship guys would be always in the battle mode as to win the girl of his dreams heart and of course with the agenda of having her for himself. Normally after this session most of the guys would take a sit back and enjoy being in love and of course being lazy. Well truly understood as hard work pays off ma.. well wouldn't it be nice if we the guys would continue to make our companion to fall in love with us everyday in regards to rain and shine so that we could enjoy every moment of this ? This is what I strongly believe we could and we should DO.
On the other hand, very seldom do I come across a guy being trapped in a girls body and what I mean is on the physical outlook she is surely a lady but on the both emotional and mentaly she is not. You see this is basically a new specimen of girl type XY we are talking about whereby they wont show you the tender and loving side, tend to be more stylish then you n most importantly does not really know or perhaps understands the meaning of appreciation.
Sad to know that this happens in real life and I keep on wondering why the guy is still with this girl if she is not really worth to be with and guess what is the answer ?
Answer is "Because I love her more then myself"
Well I was stunned and of course impress that this guy really knows what love is all about and of course the true meaning of loving a another being.
Very often we uttered out this 3 little words to our love ones " I LOVE YOU" but do we really mean it or just because that is the protocal of being in a relationship ?
When you say I LOVE YOU, my point of view is simple. You say it from your heart but come out from your mouth. Unless you can be this guy otherwise saying I LOVE YOU means nothing to the other person.
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