What is the true meaning of love?

What is the true meaning of love?

Most people who claim to love someone don’t really love them, because they don’t know what love actually is.

Real, true love is unconditional. All other “kinds” of love are not really love. Most parents and kids don’t love each other, most people in relationships don’t love each other, most people on the planet never experience unconditional love in their entire lives… or at least it sure looks that way.

To love someone unconditionally means that you love the person exactly as they are, exactly as they were before, and exactly as they will be in the future – because people change all the time, so if you love the person, you will love them even if they become something you disagree with. How many parents can say that about their kids? How many people can say that about their “lover”? Love is not about you or your pleasure or your amusement. It’s not about what you get out of it or what the other person can give to you. It’s not about having a trophy you can show off with and tell people “This is *MY* girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband/son/daughter/whatever”. You do not “own” anyone. It’s not about you feeling ‘proud’ to be with someone who always agrees with everything you say and do and never does anything you disagree with. Unconditional love means that the person can just live their life exactly as they choose and you will always be there for them no matter what.

In order to truly understand love, you must first forget everything you have ever learned about it from society and anyone else. You are the only person who can tell you what love is. The only reason I’m writing all this stuff is because people always try to fit “love” in with things like dating, relationships and marriage and all that. You can’t make any sense of it if you keep doing that. You have to get rid of everything you think you know first before you could claim that you are in love.

I have gone through this and I'm in the mist or still trying to find the true meaning of love and I hope you guys too will found it one day in the near future.

Music Heals Your Soul.......

Had you not taken your medicine ?


What will you do to release out your stress or other means of pressures ?
Will you go for a heavy drinking session with your drinking buddies ? or Take any medical
substance to relief or Does any silly things that resulted consequences after that ?

Well everyone will have their own ways or means to release this uncomforted feelings.

Personally I felt the best medicine to heal this little soul will be
MUSIC.

There are many times where I will encounter this sort of unwanted
events or perhaps such feelings however things will eventually subside
when certain tunes or melodies are played.

Sometimes I wonder music can represents everything of a medicine in healing
but not curing our mental sickness but having saying that at least it does help in
giving us a moment of peace and tranquillity from all those unwanted feelings.

Whatever it is or whether any method to achieve this moment of peace will
still be the best way depends on individuals preferences and needs,

As long as this methods or ways helps !  

Claiming your rights incidentally.........

If you would to encountered a chance my incidentally discovering

the most famous sword the "Excalibur" as mention in the 

legend of King Arthur and his knights of round tables,

What would you do ?

Would you try to unearthed the sword to claim to your rights, 

if you are able to do so ?

or 

You would leave it as it this to the next person to earthed it ?

Well in life we often comes to crossroads when we tried to decide

on certain things that we want and do, but what exactly you'll do during 

moment like this where everything that you want is right in front

of your very eyes awaiting for you to claimed it ?

Are we being naive or merely just being imaginative ? 

The answer is NO. Anything can happen in this world and 

we could not deny the term miracle as this does happen.

For instance the new black president of the united states and the 

state criminal Aung San Su Kyi who has become member of the junta

government parliament member.

This is just a little example of what can happen which are probably

out of our calculation or expectation or perhaps predictions. 

What I'm trying to point out over here is that miracles does happen and

when it happens to us how would we be reacting to that and

will that be something which are more to positive or on the other

hand.

What important is that if this does happen to us, take some time 

to digest it first before making the decision of being part of the

MIRACLES.  

Lost Souls

Have you ever wonder whether your soul has left your body before ?

or 

Might come and go at times ?

Very often during times when we are down and things are seems to 

be hopeless with no clear indication of a direction to lead us

where eventually it will lead us to no where, During this moments

Have our soul has left our body and wandered somewhere else ?

Very often I believe I've encountered this phenomenon events where

I could hardly explain why I'm here instead of some where else and

why am I doing this and what is the reason for me to do this ?

I believe when the soul returns to my body things seems to be in place

and the picture somehow become clearer on the exact particular 

moment.

Whenever I'm in such situation I believe my soul has left my body

and its either waiting for him to come back or perhaps I could

call out to him to be back.

In actual life, does this really happen ? 

Is not for me to say or judge, but somehow this strong

feeling is just there and its rather tough to be erase.

So, have you ever encounter this before ?   

Is it insecurity or reality ?

Is it insecurity or reality ?

Is it true that when one person is at his or her prime time will

received all the attention and be Se-rounded by everyone ?

But what happens when this people are on their down side ?

Will they still have this attentions ?

Will they still have this hi bye friends around them ?

Very often we will meet new individuals and expand our network

however this individuals might not be the one who will brave

through tide and waves with you.

So, how would we determine whether how true is it 

as far as this treatment is concern is in fact a

reality and not the feeling of in-security ?

I'm not saying that there will not be any true friends or perhaps

someone who will stand with us when we are encountering

downfall or slowdown or anything but in today's

world where we are showered with lots

of material and indecent proposals are we still

confident that things won't change ?

Personally I've encountered this sort of treatments 

and honestly instead of asking sympathy from these lots

I would choose to be alone.

The only group of people who will stand with

us in regards of any good or worst situations 

will be............

"OUR FAMILY MEMBERS" 

Are we dependent or independent ?

Are we dependent or independent ?

The correct message from President John Fitzgerald Kennedy are suppose to be

" Ask not what your country can do for you but what can you do for your country"

When we really put our thoughts into this message we will eventually

discover something more then what this great person is trying to say.

Very often we blame on something or someone for not completing certain mission or

work or certain responsibility assigned to us.

Are we not to certain level which we abused some of the things and people

around us in order for us to achieved or attained something ?

But how often do we ask ourself instead of expecting something or favours from others

which actually would not need that but instead we can do something for this others.

Well sometimes is rather hard to depict as in certain situation we are not able

to do so however we could still offer something else instead for instance, if

we could not assist in term of monetary we could offer something else.

Most of the time we would take for granted and neglects all this things 

which we could do but choose not to.

Very often when some people or individuals have this capabilities to do so

but choose not to compares with those who wanted to do but without

this capabilities.

I sincerely hope one day, one fine day ! I could do both be it monetary

or physical assistance to others which I felt is more meaningful.

Diversification in whatever we do.......

DIVERSIFICATION !

Very often we will come across this term especially in the area of 

doing business or entrepreneurship.

But....

Have we ever thought that our mind can be also diversify in 

our own way ?

Our brain is such a wonderful part of our body but yet we 

do not realize the potential of what we could do

or how can we expand or maybe perhaps

discover some ability which scientist can't be explained.  

I've always wonder whether we could do so as our brain 

basically have the capacity or rooms to store so much

of data and memories which enable us to carry

out our work and think properly. Not to mention the ability

of problem solving and creativity mindset.

If only we could diversify our mind to do something

extra which we do not probably think of or

maybe the capability to achieve.

How I wish I could do that and one thing I must stress here

is that having the diversification of my mind is nothing

compares to multi tasking or whatsoever.