We shall decide what is the best for our pension funds

When we work hard for the money we look forward to have a 

better living environment and also enjoy life after our retirement.

However cases are rather funny over here as this hard earn money 

of ours are imposingly being decided by certain quarters which

GOD knows what is their true agenda behind this by increasing 

the withdrawal age from 55 to 60.

My god if we would to die even before the retirement age 

isn't it seems unfair to us whereby we have not even 

have the chance to utilize even a cent of our hard earn ?

What if we needed the money for emergency ?

How about after retirement at 55 and I wanted to start 

a small business can i withdraw from my pension funds ?

I dun think so. The possible reason I could probably think

of why such funny rules are introduce is because this

quarters felt that they could any time do something to

their like when the pension funds coffers are there

and thus they have forgotten that this is our money 

and not theirs.

Why cant we decide ourself on our own hard earn money ?

If we were to refer to the dividend pay out on this recent 

10 years it has been not in favour and fair to us as the contributor.

Who are this bunch of clowns to claim that they have the rights 

to decide what they want to do with our money ?

If you would to say that you have the right to do so, well 

personally I felt we also have our rights to move our pension 

funds to other organization which could provide us more.

Its time to realize that all of us have been a victim 

of dirty activities carried out by certain quarters to 

protect their interest instead of ours.

Final questions, If one its already in heavy debt and in the

verge of bankrupt can we withdraw our pension funds to solve 

this issue ? Funny right we cant do anything when we are 

in such challenging situation eventought  he have the money, 

and its

OUR HARD EARN MONEY !!!!!!!!

SMK Buntong, Ipoh Perak practises students discrimination and un-equal treatment

All of us would agree that during our schooling years silly things

done by us are rather a norm as we are all teenagers.

However what happens in this school is purely unfair treatment and 

insane thinking of certain teachers towards certain students.

I strongly believe that all of us does encounter some punishment for some

small wrong doings during our schooling years but do we deserve to be called 

lier's or a prostitute by the teacher ?

That shows the mentality of the teachers itself needed to be corrected 

or perhaps certain actions to be taken against them.

As a teacher, their duties is to assist the students not only on academic

issues but also guide them to be a useful person when they leave 

school into the society.

But what happens here is not what we assume but is the ugly truth of

what is practising where this teachers are basically more superior and

perhaps above the law.

As we progress in a progressing nation, we need too also have 

progress in term of our mentality but what had happen here ?

What is your objective of going into this sector ?

What is your vision and mission ?

Students at this age are rather vulnerable and easily being influence or 

perhaps might get the wrong idea by having such treatments from this

uncivilized individuals.

Its no longer the issue within the school compound when a teacher

who i deemed an adult who are qualified uttered out such statement

which related to racism and defamation.

The teachers who mention such statement could be prosecuted and

also has not only violated the school rules but the issue of 

NATIONAL SECURITY 

as far as remark on racism is concern in a multi racial 

country like Malaysia.

All this should not be happening as we are a progressing nation

and its our duty to curb such incapability individuals or perhaps 

should remove this portion of teachers from the society.

What is the point of dedicating a public holiday for the teachers 

when they themselves does not earn the respect ?

If anyone should be reading this and could be a victim of 

unequal treatment from Sekeloh Menengah Kebangsaan Buntong, Ipoh, Perak.

Please stand up and get the justice back on track so that others

could benefit from your nobel gesture.    

Inspiration comes late at nite.......

Very often I do have problem sleeping at nite, I wonder 

whether its insomnia or what ?

Funny thing about this happening has somehow triggered my

interest to think and write which somehow again become my 

past time while waiting to go to bed.

Initially I was clueless to what I should write and how to start but

when things just happen, automatically inputs are pouring in and its 

fun and in the same time fulfilling.

I strongly believe by writing not only you could express out what you think

but most importantly is the sharing of what you encountered to others

so that they would perhaps aware and acknowledge that all

of us do have different encounters and we could probably

gain something out of this.

It's funny though that a person like me who does not seem to have good

English but so eager to write and basically can't wait to write.

But why writing and not other interest of hobbies ? 

This is the question i ask myself.

Well, this question will never have an answer cause I don't really know

why and honestly I don't even keen to find out as long as 

it gives me the satisfaction at the end of the day.

Lime Groovin with love.....

LIME GROOVY

Recently Mc Donalds came out up with a special sundae flavour

"THE GROOVY LIME"

Wasn't really interested at first to try it out until my girl

paster me to try out and its really early in the morning.

Well the no harm trying indeed brings lots of wonderful

feelings after experiencing the lime groovy and god I was

like instantly addicted to it this.

The taste is just marvellous with the lime syrup on the

smooth vanilla sundae and to top it up would be

the lime nata de coco jelly, perfectly

Done !

It is rather funny at times when simple thing like this

would not only brings back those old days but 

it will actually make your day !

The following day I was so excited again to have it 

and invited my mom to lime groove together and guess what ?

Its a midnite lime groovin with mom and that I will 

say,

PRICELESS !  

Cross Road in Life......

Ever come across such situations ?

Well, every individuals will at least for once or not more will 

face such situations.

Question is, how would you handle such Situations ?

Do you face it yourself ? or

Do you approach anyone ? or 

Just choose to let it be till you can avoid any more ?

Most important thing when we would encounter such

events is to have a clear mind stake and take things

at time so that it will not prolonged 

and disturb our daily routine or our plans.

There's no right or wrong on what you would 

do but what you should do.

What is the true meaning of love?

What is the true meaning of love?

Most people who claim to love someone don’t really love them, because they don’t know what love actually is.

Real, true love is unconditional. All other “kinds” of love are not really love. Most parents and kids don’t love each other, most people in relationships don’t love each other, most people on the planet never experience unconditional love in their entire lives… or at least it sure looks that way.

To love someone unconditionally means that you love the person exactly as they are, exactly as they were before, and exactly as they will be in the future – because people change all the time, so if you love the person, you will love them even if they become something you disagree with. How many parents can say that about their kids? How many people can say that about their “lover”? Love is not about you or your pleasure or your amusement. It’s not about what you get out of it or what the other person can give to you. It’s not about having a trophy you can show off with and tell people “This is *MY* girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband/son/daughter/whatever”. You do not “own” anyone. It’s not about you feeling ‘proud’ to be with someone who always agrees with everything you say and do and never does anything you disagree with. Unconditional love means that the person can just live their life exactly as they choose and you will always be there for them no matter what.

In order to truly understand love, you must first forget everything you have ever learned about it from society and anyone else. You are the only person who can tell you what love is. The only reason I’m writing all this stuff is because people always try to fit “love” in with things like dating, relationships and marriage and all that. You can’t make any sense of it if you keep doing that. You have to get rid of everything you think you know first before you could claim that you are in love.

I have gone through this and I'm in the mist or still trying to find the true meaning of love and I hope you guys too will found it one day in the near future.

Music Heals Your Soul.......

Had you not taken your medicine ?


What will you do to release out your stress or other means of pressures ?
Will you go for a heavy drinking session with your drinking buddies ? or Take any medical
substance to relief or Does any silly things that resulted consequences after that ?

Well everyone will have their own ways or means to release this uncomforted feelings.

Personally I felt the best medicine to heal this little soul will be
MUSIC.

There are many times where I will encounter this sort of unwanted
events or perhaps such feelings however things will eventually subside
when certain tunes or melodies are played.

Sometimes I wonder music can represents everything of a medicine in healing
but not curing our mental sickness but having saying that at least it does help in
giving us a moment of peace and tranquillity from all those unwanted feelings.

Whatever it is or whether any method to achieve this moment of peace will
still be the best way depends on individuals preferences and needs,

As long as this methods or ways helps !  

Claiming your rights incidentally.........

If you would to encountered a chance my incidentally discovering

the most famous sword the "Excalibur" as mention in the 

legend of King Arthur and his knights of round tables,

What would you do ?

Would you try to unearthed the sword to claim to your rights, 

if you are able to do so ?

or 

You would leave it as it this to the next person to earthed it ?

Well in life we often comes to crossroads when we tried to decide

on certain things that we want and do, but what exactly you'll do during 

moment like this where everything that you want is right in front

of your very eyes awaiting for you to claimed it ?

Are we being naive or merely just being imaginative ? 

The answer is NO. Anything can happen in this world and 

we could not deny the term miracle as this does happen.

For instance the new black president of the united states and the 

state criminal Aung San Su Kyi who has become member of the junta

government parliament member.

This is just a little example of what can happen which are probably

out of our calculation or expectation or perhaps predictions. 

What I'm trying to point out over here is that miracles does happen and

when it happens to us how would we be reacting to that and

will that be something which are more to positive or on the other

hand.

What important is that if this does happen to us, take some time 

to digest it first before making the decision of being part of the

MIRACLES.  

Lost Souls

Have you ever wonder whether your soul has left your body before ?

or 

Might come and go at times ?

Very often during times when we are down and things are seems to 

be hopeless with no clear indication of a direction to lead us

where eventually it will lead us to no where, During this moments

Have our soul has left our body and wandered somewhere else ?

Very often I believe I've encountered this phenomenon events where

I could hardly explain why I'm here instead of some where else and

why am I doing this and what is the reason for me to do this ?

I believe when the soul returns to my body things seems to be in place

and the picture somehow become clearer on the exact particular 

moment.

Whenever I'm in such situation I believe my soul has left my body

and its either waiting for him to come back or perhaps I could

call out to him to be back.

In actual life, does this really happen ? 

Is not for me to say or judge, but somehow this strong

feeling is just there and its rather tough to be erase.

So, have you ever encounter this before ?   

Is it insecurity or reality ?

Is it insecurity or reality ?

Is it true that when one person is at his or her prime time will

received all the attention and be Se-rounded by everyone ?

But what happens when this people are on their down side ?

Will they still have this attentions ?

Will they still have this hi bye friends around them ?

Very often we will meet new individuals and expand our network

however this individuals might not be the one who will brave

through tide and waves with you.

So, how would we determine whether how true is it 

as far as this treatment is concern is in fact a

reality and not the feeling of in-security ?

I'm not saying that there will not be any true friends or perhaps

someone who will stand with us when we are encountering

downfall or slowdown or anything but in today's

world where we are showered with lots

of material and indecent proposals are we still

confident that things won't change ?

Personally I've encountered this sort of treatments 

and honestly instead of asking sympathy from these lots

I would choose to be alone.

The only group of people who will stand with

us in regards of any good or worst situations 

will be............

"OUR FAMILY MEMBERS" 

Are we dependent or independent ?

Are we dependent or independent ?

The correct message from President John Fitzgerald Kennedy are suppose to be

" Ask not what your country can do for you but what can you do for your country"

When we really put our thoughts into this message we will eventually

discover something more then what this great person is trying to say.

Very often we blame on something or someone for not completing certain mission or

work or certain responsibility assigned to us.

Are we not to certain level which we abused some of the things and people

around us in order for us to achieved or attained something ?

But how often do we ask ourself instead of expecting something or favours from others

which actually would not need that but instead we can do something for this others.

Well sometimes is rather hard to depict as in certain situation we are not able

to do so however we could still offer something else instead for instance, if

we could not assist in term of monetary we could offer something else.

Most of the time we would take for granted and neglects all this things 

which we could do but choose not to.

Very often when some people or individuals have this capabilities to do so

but choose not to compares with those who wanted to do but without

this capabilities.

I sincerely hope one day, one fine day ! I could do both be it monetary

or physical assistance to others which I felt is more meaningful.

Diversification in whatever we do.......

DIVERSIFICATION !

Very often we will come across this term especially in the area of 

doing business or entrepreneurship.

But....

Have we ever thought that our mind can be also diversify in 

our own way ?

Our brain is such a wonderful part of our body but yet we 

do not realize the potential of what we could do

or how can we expand or maybe perhaps

discover some ability which scientist can't be explained.  

I've always wonder whether we could do so as our brain 

basically have the capacity or rooms to store so much

of data and memories which enable us to carry

out our work and think properly. Not to mention the ability

of problem solving and creativity mindset.

If only we could diversify our mind to do something

extra which we do not probably think of or

maybe the capability to achieve.

How I wish I could do that and one thing I must stress here

is that having the diversification of my mind is nothing

compares to multi tasking or whatsoever.

Life. What do we look for and can we see it coming ?

Life. What do we look for and can we see it coming ?

Most of the time we would ask ourselves lots of questions pertaining or in regards

to this issues.

We often thinks that sometimes its predestined that our life is in such 

manner and therefore we should accept as it is and live with it.

But what really matters to us as far as our own life is 

concern is whether there is any possibility for us to change

or re-route it to our expectation or perhaps 

something we would want it to be ?

Well, the answer is with us all this while. 

Some individuals can't choose what they want to be and how to lead their life's

but do you think we can ?

Senator Robert Kennedy perhaps is someone who we could look upon

on how he tackles such issue from assisting his brother for the presidency

campaign to his own presidency campaign which I think is not what he

really wants but was told to lead such life none other then his father 

Joe Kennedy.

Not all of us are born to such majestic and yet powerful family that leaves us 

no choice to choose our own way of doing things we like in our own way.

So, 

We could as a matter of fact can make this changes to what we have now 

to suits us more so that we can have a meaning life without have to 

worry of so many things to take care of.

Think carefully and think deeply on this topic and perhaps

in no time we could find ourselves answers to our 

own questions.

Descendent of the Dragon.....

Indeed is an interesting topic to write as most Chinese around the world 

believes that we are the descendent of the Dragon.

Dragons are very closely related to all the Chinese as we believes

the dragon brings not only health but wealth.

Those who are born under the dragon zodiac sign of the Chinese believes that

the child will one day grow to someone who are not only intelligent but

would be able to be a leader as compare to Capricorn.

If we were to trace back the ancient Chinese history which is like

some 5000 years back we would discover lots of unknown and untold

stories about our culture, believes, literatures and many many more

not to left out also some of the precious artefacts and scroll which 

are in no value to put for.

As a Chinese and the descendent of the dragon I would  probably say

that I'm proud as we are rich with cultures and literatures.

I was not really into an in depth study or research few years back on this 

topic as at that time I would say that it would not bring any benefits to 

what I'm currently doing but it proofs that I'm wrong as when I really

go into this topic in a more detail manner I discovered something 

I was not told by my parents nor my grandparents.

This something which I'm refering to is called

"IDENTITY"

  

Confused and confusing....

Sometimes we tend to do things that we do not know why and how ?

Most of the time we are basically in a confused stake of mind and at times we wondered around

like a lost soul searching for its body and most of this actions or reactions will probably

make us more confusing.

But what really confused about this things is that we do not mind doing it 

and keep on repeating it until time comes when we start to ask ourselves questions.

Why I'm doing this ? How come I'm here instead of there ? When does this happen ?

Well is not wrong at times being confused even-tough we do think

rationally and at the same time in the clear mind stake.

But what really matters the most is not to allow this confuse stake to become more

confusing whereby it by complicate certain matters.

At times I don't know how to differentiate between whether I'm confused or

I just don't understand.

I've many times while driving alone but not sleepy trying to reach my destination

and my mind have lots of pictures running and running in front of me which 

I'm still driving and of course still focusing on the road however it has been 

quite unrealized that while having this pictures running suddenly I've 

reach my destination and the funny thing is that I will ask myself

How come I've reached already ? and I don't quite remember the roads I took

that leads me to my destination.

How about this ? Funny right ?

That shows how powerful our mind is even-tough we are focusing on something

we could still do other stuff without realizing that we are doing it.

and 

This is called unrealized  multi tasking  mode !!!!!  

Soul mate..

Soul mate. Two little words, one big concept.

A believe that someone, somewhere, is holding the key to your heart and 

your dream. All you have to do is find them.

So, where is this person ?

" People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. 

But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back,

the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.

A true soul mate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, 

because they tear down your walls and smack you awake.

A soul mate's purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit,

show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can 

get in, make you so out of control that you have to transform yourself and your life".

Once, a long, long time ago, all humans had four legs and two heads.

And then the gods threw down a thunderbolts and split everyone into two.

Each half then had two legs and one head. 

But the separation left both sides with a desperate yearning to be

united.

Because they each shared the same soul  and ever since then,

all people spend their lives searching for the other half of their soul.

HOW ABOUT YOU ? 

A walk down memory lane......

During some time when we are not doing anything at all would you be thinking

and would you somehow recalls the years of your childhood or teenagers years

or perhaps some events which are worth for you to recall just

to refresh back those memories.

Many of us would have this or probably would think of this as when we are free

from the need of doing those donkey works which is rather routine

in our life on the daily basis.

Come to think back when I recall this moments, it's simply wonderful

and somehow gives me a sense of peace during this recall moments.

For instance, during childhood where we are not bond to anything or responsibilities

as we are facing right now and would you not agree with me that this 

somehow will reduce your stress level and thus gives you a room 

to breath by doing so.

Very often I would recall back many things to remind myself that how lucky I'm 

to be still around considering some of the moments which are rather life taking

or hardship where we would not imagine.

Its good to sometimes recall back some past events so that we could improve and 

and rectify probably some of the mistakes we've done in the past and so that

it would not repeat again in the future.

There's a phrase saying " Making a mistake is not a sin however making this 

mistakes without learning from it will be a sin"

What can I say any more ? Its surely well said and I totally agree with this statement

as we are just a normal human being and deem to do mistakes at

times even we don't realize or do it on purpose.

So, conclusion is whenever we have time please try to recall and take a trip down memory

lane during our free time to constantly remind us some of the past events to enable

us to have a new and more fruitful event to come.

A best friend indeed when you need

Friends ? Best Buddies ? Drinking Buddies ?

Which are this above or perhaps not mention are the correct ones to describe most of
the so called friends or people around you ?

Do you think we should have expectation from our friends or best buddies ?

In life as we grow we will encounter with a lot of individuals be it whether they are special
or not and eventually this people will turn into our friends or perhaps just merely acquittance.

What I'm trying to point out over here is whenever you are in need of help in any kind, Who
would you turn to and will this person that you approach would lent a hand to you
to solve your problems or at least treat you out for a drink and listens to your
grievances ?

Many times we would say that we have lots and lots of friend without realizing
who of they and whether this people actually remembers us or not ?

Well at times when we come to think back, how often would we take the opportunity
or trouble to contact, get in touch and perhaps a just a courtesy of asking
how are you doing via the email ?

Personally I categorised myself as a quite heartless person before as I never bothered to
return calls, return greeting cards, return birthday wishes and etc.

But recently I've realize that I'm wrong and has take up the challenge to change
and be more sensitive in regards to this issue.

HOW ABOUT YOU  ?

Why only during Mother's Day ?

Mother's Day !

I would probably put this event as a gimmick of some clever business individuals to 

garner in more revenue for their business. During this day who will probably benefit 

from it ? Let's see, the eateries, the souvenir shops, florist, boutique's and

many many more.

Lots of questions running in my mind on mother's day. Why only remembers your mom

during this day and only reward her during this day ?

When comes to mothers day most of this so called filial children will tend to 

pretend they remember their mom and etc.

I'm not referring to the majority but let us look at this in a different manner 

or angle. I would love to see some response or perhaps create some

awareness by posting some of this following questions :

1) How often do you say I love you to your mom ?

2) Do you basically share most of your stuff with her ?

3) We often keep our GF or BF photo in our wallet how about 

keeping your mom's picture ? Do u do that ?

4) Is it by remembering mother's day will indicate that you care ?

5) How often do you call your mom ? ( if not staying together)

I love my mom very much and it does not matter on which day as to me

everyday is mothers day. If any of you had followed on my recent writings,

you will realize that I have at least two topic which I've mention about my mom

who is not just my mom but a mentor and a best friend to me

and most importantly I do carry my moms photo with me everyday 

and everywhere I go.

To me whoever only remembers of their mom during this day and

 celebrates mother's day are purely  Hippocratic individuals and honestly my 

respect for this people are basically NIL !

Let us not forget that eventough there is special day dedicated to respective figures 

please remember that this day means nothing but for commercialization purposes

and if you are really sincere in honouring your mom please treat every day is

MOTHER'S DAY !!!

     

What will be your defination of enough ?

Well this is indeed a very interesting topic to lot of people but stills 

consider a taboo to a lot of us Asians however things does change somehow rather.

Is there any word such as enough ? Well it will solely depends on every individuals need,

desire and urge.

One thing for sure is that some people will take sex as just a routine work e.g. eating and working 

and bla bla bla !! 

To me having sex is just a good reason for a couple to build a stronger bonding

provided is not just for the sake of having it. What I meant is towards those 

who are dating or perhaps those who are already marriage.

Having regular sex is good for your health indeed as it will enhance your chances

of not getting heart disease and also something like an anti ageing agent.

Personally I'm quite an active person as far as sexual activity is concern but 

what is important here is that you will never fail to be attracted to the same person  

again every time when you make love to her and this makes it so special.

It is the effort of willing to try everything new and having spontaneous events

to enhance the love making session. 

So many articles and people who I know commit extra marital affairs or I would 

say cheating on their spouses be it whether the husband or the wife.

It must be in a mutual understanding of each and others needs in order to create

new height in ones love making session other then the foreplay and the fantasy

thingy stuff. 

I believe there are no secret formulas or any abracadabra merlin thingy 

to enhance this however if both can open themselves and talk it out

on what is in their mind so that the other person can work out something 

or perhaps both can work out something special to enhance or probably

taking their intimate session to a different dimension.

Guys will be guys as most of the time they will think about sex and if possible

they would want to have it like taking medicine 3 times a day everyday.

Of course like most bastards we love to wondered around or scout around

for new ports but this wont happen I guess if a couple's relationship

is strong enough and not inclusive of those who are singles.

I would say my defination is never enough when comes to sex and 

HOW ABOUT YOU ?